There's a conversation you aren't having with your parents.

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Over the next decade, trillions of dollars will transfer between generations.

Not from dynasties, but from ordinary families with houses, retirement accounts, and life insurance policies that nobody has discussed out loud. 

Most adult children never ask.

Not because they don’t care. 

Because asking feels like overstepping. Greedy. Entitled. 

Somewhere underneath the discomfort is a dynamic that’s been running since childhood. Avoidance, unspoken resentment, performance anxiety, or magical thinking that someone has it all handled.

These aren’t personality flaws. They’re inherited patterns.

And they’re the reason the conversation rarely happens.

The fix isn’t finding the right words. It’s becoming someone your parents can actually trust with what they’ve built.

22M

The New Inheritors

22 million Americans now aged 35-65 will inherit estates valued between $200,000 and $10 million.

(Cerulli Associates, 2024)

40%

The “No Will” Paradox

40% of Americans in that asset range believe they “don’t have enough assets” for a will.

(Northwestern Mutual, 2024)

4 Ways You Might Lose Everything

Care: Long-term Care costs $50,000-$200,000 annually.
An extended illness can eliminate an inheritance in months.

Courts: Estates get locked in probate or conflict.
This can cause up to two years of delay. Contested estates can get drained by legal fees alone.

Conflict: Disputes involving siblings fighting over perceived fairness. 
67% of families report permanent relationship damage after inheritance conflicts. 

Confusion: Lack of comprehensive estate plans.
You think you don’t have enough to need one, or you’re too busy to create one. This is where wealth goes to die.

The Great Wealth Transfer isn’t just a financial event. 

It’s a psychological reckoning. 

Most families will fail this test. Not because they lack wealth, but because they lack trust. 

Preparing for an inheritance isn’t an act of greed. 

It sets your family on a new course.

And if we get it right, this is the greatest opportunity most families will ever have to change how they relate to money, to each other, and to what they leave behind.

I’m here to help you have that conversation before a crisis makes it unavoidable.

Hi, I'm Ali Katz

We Are All Inheritors

It's not just money.

It's our future.

What do you actually inherit from your family? After graduating first in my class from Georgetown Law, building two seven-figure companies, writing a best-selling book, and appearing on television as a legal and financial expert, I walked away from it all. Because I’d inherited something I couldn’t outrun: a pattern. My father sold false dreams and went to prison for it. I’d promised myself I’d never repeat what he did, but that promise shaped everything, including a deep fear that my own work wasn’t really valuable.

Walking away was how I finally answered that question. What I found changed everything I thought I knew about inheritance, legacy, and what families actually pass down.

It’s up to us to heal the past and create a legacy worth leaving, now.

That conviction cost me everything I thought I wanted, and built everything that actually matters. Here’s how.

The Inheritor's Field Guide

Most families come to inheritance unprepared, not because they’re careless, but because no one ever showed them what to look at or how to talk about it.

The Inheritor’s Field Guide is where that changes. It covers the legal and financial reality of what’s actually transferring. And, it covers the family dynamics that determine whether it brings people together or tears them apart.

The Questions

Most people don’t start with a spreadsheet. They start with a nagging uncertainty. This is where we begin.

What Red Flags Should I Be Looking Out for in My Parents’ Estate Plan?

What If I’m Ready to Start Estate Planning, But My Spouse Isn’t?

I Have Power of Attorney–Does It Matter If There Is No Formal Will?

The Shift

This section is about the bigger pattern: how to stop inheriting your family’s silence along with their assets.

Money Dysmorphia: You Might Be Richer Than You Think

When Not to Talk to Your Parents About Their Estate Plan

We Are All Inheritors

The Inheritance

Understand how money actually moves: houses, businesses, accounts, wills, probate, and the legal and financial structures that dictate it.

Where the Money Actually Is: A Guide to Finding Where The Assets of Your Inheritance Are

When the Family Home Is Not Just a House

The Family Business Problem

The X Factors

$14 trillion is transferring to Generation X right now. If you’re in your 40s or 50s, this is about you.

Gen Xers: Are You Psychologically Prepared for the Great Wealth Transfer?

The Psychology of Becoming an Inheritor

Why Generation X Is at the Front Edge of the Great Wealth Transfer